I found myself drawn to the extreme after breaking a rule and kissing a boy at the age of 13, while in the realm of social control from my Somali society in Norway. When I years later wanted to marry a Norwegian man, parts of my family harassed and rejected me to the point where I felt completely alone. Learn how I chose to cut ties with my own family and start a life, where my opinion mattered. See how I used this a s a drive to evolve as a person to complete my studies and finally feel free to build the life I wanted.